2011, Your bitch.

Sick, the New Year is here.

WOOOO!!!!! HAPPY 2011 KINGS!!!!!

Now that all the wild parties are over, the fun has died down, your core resolutions have been set, it’s time to get to work and truly OWN your life and achieve more this year than you ever have before.

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Before we get started though, it’s time for a reality check.

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Right now, take a look in the mirror.

Like what you see? Hopefully you do.

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Next, take a look around at Your Canvas.


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Are you truly where you wanted to be exactly 1 year ago?

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Take a look back on your past actions this last year….Did you stick to your vigorous workout schedule?

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Did you eat a clean, strict, and pure healthy diet?

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Did you engage in Meditation daily, or whatever other personal enriching goal you set for yourself?

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Right now, are you exactly where you want to live?

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Is your body in the exact shape and fitness level you want it in?

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Is your bank account fat and full?

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Do you feel vibrant and alive, just like you wanted last year?

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Do you currently have a rich awesome & fun social life?

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Are there lots of girls in your life right NOW who are eager for your text / calls / dick?

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I have some scary news, chances are where you are now is EXACTLY where you’re going to be in exactly 12 months from now… for real.

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You’re gonna have the exact same year over again, and nothing is going to be any different.

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That is, unless you decide to change things right here and right now.

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If you want things in your life to change, then you need to CHANGE THINGS IN YOUR LIFE.

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If you’re not *Exactly* where you want to be in any area; your old behaviors, ways of thinking, and ways of doing things obviously aren’t working. The very definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over again expecting a different result.

Quit beating your head against the wall and have enough sensory acuity to realize certain things you’re doing AREN’T WORKING.

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The problem is, we like to trick ourselves in order to stay the same. Homeostasis is a powerful and very real survival tool. Crippling mental forces like rationalization and highly convincing excuses cloud our judgment in the Now to desperately try to keep us the same.

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Your biology likes to think that you’re surviving, so why change? Why expend more mental or physical energy?

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I urge you to look back on your 2010. Although we hate to admit it to ourselves, we are all like robots. Just because the calender clicked over to Jan 1st and your computer screen now reads “2011” doesn’t mean shit. Although we don’t want to see this truth, we generally tend to do the exact same things, think the same thoughts, and repeat the same actions that we did yesterday.

Any attempt at drastic change and our internal homeostasis mechanism freaks out and convinces us to expend more energy (or to “do that”) tomorrow, or ten minutes from now, or next week.

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In reality, you will NEVER do it.

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A wise man once said; “Human beings have an infinite capacity for self deception.”

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And it’s true.

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Not NOW = NEVER.

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The funny thing about us humans is we think that we can one day be lazy, and suddenly the next day *snap* into super awesome King productive mode, start working out, lose all this fat, build all this muscle, eat healthy, and blast out of bed in the morning reading 10,000 books and pulling 80 girls at the club that night. As if we can just switch this productive energetic performance power on and off.

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Habits, that is to say our daily hour-to-hour actions, pull.  Hard.

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Whether you lounge around all day or you get shit DONE & HANDLED burning lots of energy by constantly working – both moment-to-moment cemented actions infuse you with a certain mode and way of being that becomes extremely habitual. Think of it like a set-point you always default to. It’s like the famous adage; “If you want something to get done then give it to a busy person.”

To further explore this topic, check out The Snowball Effect, an Authentic King Classic.

This is why chodes typically set all these fancy new years goals, follow them for a week, and then within a short amount of time find themselves slipping up and falling off the wagon back to their same old habits.

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Let’s get real.

The Now is all you will ever have.

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You will oneday be looking at the beautiful face of your dream girl laying in bed next to you in your perfect future house in the NOW.

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You will watch and hold your first beautiful child being born… in the NOW.

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You will make all your money, spend [and get] what you materially desire, and truly feel financial freedom, NOW.

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You will walk over to that hot girl at the club, pull her back to your room and fuck her and enjoy her in your NOW.

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Even when you think of the past, you’re seeing it in terms of NOW.

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Everything that did, is, or will happen to you will be in the NOW.

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It’s all NOW, it always will be NOW and it never can’t not be NOW.

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Your now is your point of power, and it is the ONLY place where true change can occur.


So guess what… eating healthy, being a cool guy, exercising regularly, waking up early to go jog / meditate, reading those books that are collecting dust on your shelf, being ‘healed of all your deep issues and problems’, finally taking action… it all must and WILL happen NOW.

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Closer… TODAY.

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No, not later today.

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No, not tomorrow.

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No, not in 20 minutes.

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NOW.

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Not NOW = NEVER.

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“How soon not now becomes never.”

-Martin Luther

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Another great man once said that ‘the #1 way to form a new habit is to start NOW and DON’T DEVIATE.’

The point is guys, if you’re not starting today, chances are you will NEVER start.

I have what is called an “Executive Board” pasted above my work computer at my desk. This is where I put all my motivational bits and key lessons that keep me on track. One of the most profound statements on there is;

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Is my action RIGHT NOW in alignment with my deepest values?

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Time is our most precious resource. Right now, if you’re young (and yes, I consider even 40 being young. Age is as old as you feel.) you probably think you have pleeennntttyyyy of time in your future to accomplish your dreams or start behaving like the Man you were destined to be. You can always do it tomorrow.

Dead wrong.

Not only does tomorrow never come, but someday you might not even have the CHANCE to work on your dreams and goals… you’ll simply run out of time.

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Just ask any average chode elder, they all say the same crap. “My whole life flashed before my eyes, I thought it would last forever… I would redo it all so differently if I could just go back.”

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I personally want to look back on my life and be stoked and deeply satisfied at my actions and successes, each and every day becoming better and better – in ALL areas.

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So now that you understand you must act NOW towards your goals and dreams (deepest values), you’ll need to be smart about it.

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It’s super easy to get super stoked about working out or heading out to the club to practice on lots of women or whatever goal you have set for yourself, and then get drained & burned out.

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Learning to apply your newfound motivational energy (created by regularly connecting to your purpose here as a Man) to accomplish goals takes time, but once you figure it out you will be able to accomplish more in the next month than you have in the past year.

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The next crucial concept we need to discuss so that you Kings will start off this year on the right foot is BURNOUT.

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Yes, even Michael Jordan takes naps.

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In the incredible book, The Power of Full Engagement, author Tony Schwartz tells us that,”managing energy, NOT time is the key to high performance.”

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For those of you that do not know, Tony Schwartz is famous for coaching and studying elite Olympic athletes as well as top-level CEOs and other incredible people who accomplish great things in their lives and perform at an exceptional, “peak performance” level. He has spent the last 30 years figuring out what truly makes a person great and achieve far more than the average man or woman. He figured out all the common denominators and poured out 30 years of wisdom into a book. I suggest you go and read that book IMMEDIATELY.

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“Managing energy, NOT time is the key to high performance.”

-Tony Schwartz, Elite Performance Coach.

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This year, focus on your health and energy levels and watch your productivity soar. This is the year to dominate – it is the year where you will accomplish more in your life than you ever have before. I’m certain of it. Just by reading this blog post you are getting years and years of wisdom from different masters all packed into one kickass post filled with principles that truly affect human performance levels.

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The key is to view life like a series of SPRINTS. Wake the fuck up, hit your morning routine, take action – HANDLE whatever needs to be done.. then around noon when yuo start to feel drowsy, Rest. Fully.

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A quick concept I want you guys to begin using immediately is that of CLEAN CUTS.

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When it’s time to read, READ. Stop thinking about bullshit you have to do later tonight.

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When it’s time to workout, focus on NOTHING ELSE but your breathing and strict weight lifting form.

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When you’re with her, BE WITH HER. Enjoying her in the moment. Not thinking about ‘how you’re gonna escalate’ on her or if you might hook up, or what stuff you need to work on later that day or WHATEVER.

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When you’re resting… RELAX. Rejuvenate. Recharge. Truly let go and rest.

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Disconnect, fully recharge. Let go of control. Take a few slow deep breaths, enjoy your nap and refreshing downtime.

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When you’re out socializing with friends – forget about all the work you have to do or where you’re at on your life goals. Just let go and have a blast.

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Winston Churchhill used to take naps during the war, daily. He said it was what enabled his powerful leadership success. Allowing ourselves to rest and fully recover, and then go at it again [SPRINT] is the key to elite performance.

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You must sleep sometime between lunch and dinner, and no halfway measures. Take off your clothes and get into bed. That’s what I always do. Don’t think you will be doing less work because you sleep during the day. That’s a foolish notion held by people who have no imaginations. You will be able to accomplish more. You get two days in one — well, at least one and a half.”

Winston Churchill

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Many of us today learn to ignore our bodies subtle signals. As you learned from a previous post, your body is extremely wise. When your body sends you the signal to sleep, it is best to go close your eyes and rest for a little bit. You’ll wake up 10x more refreshed, energetic, and passionate – ready to tackle whatever is in front of you and start at it again. Most people feel tired today and they “push through it” – severely hindering their performance. When you’re tired, you just can’t concentrate or get much done.

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So maybe you fucked up in 2010 and were lazy and only accomplished a third of your goals (or hardly any at all!)

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Fuck it. It’s over. Gone. Dead.

Lol, it’s Eckhart Tolle, HARDCORE STYLE.

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The message in that video, although rough, has a deep truth.

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You can’t change tomorrow if you can’t change today.

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The Now is all you will ever have.

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YOUR PURPOSE

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Another common problem I see with a lot of guys today is that we as a society are too “instant gratification” short-term focused.

In our fast-paced lives we don’t stop and reflect… we just mindlessly move from day to day activities.

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“Man I just woke up, fuck I’m late for class! I gotta shower! Oh shit, I forgot that paper was due… I’ll type it up at library. Oh man, I gotta make some food. Damn I gotta go to the store today and buy more. I’ll do that after class. Oh shit, I forgot to call Kevin and tell him about Sarah. Oh yeah, it’s my sister’s birthday…”

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REACTION MODE.

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We tend to move from event to event to event, mindlessly completing tasks that don’t have any true meaning or importance in our life.

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Stop and reflect on your daily actions and consider the very real consequences they have on your future. Indulging in instant gratification ‘in-the-moment’ pleasure (like watching funny youtube videos all day or choding out on facebook for an hour or chilling in front of the xbox), instead not focusing on daily disciplines that bring long-term rewards… and thus, enjoyment.

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In the book Flow, author Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi discusses the key difference between pleasure, and enjoyment.

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Pleasure is a fleeting experience we feel in the moment and is easy to acquire.

Enjoyment is longer-lasting feeling of deep sustained satisfaction that LASTS.

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Examples of things that give us long-term enjoyment can be: having a cute, cool, hot & horny girlfriend who loves you in your life (vs. a one night stand), being able to play a music instrument or having some other cultivated skill (like a sport), having a cash flow income stream on autopilot giving you free time and travel opportunity, being strong fit vital and alive, etc.

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Thing is though, a lot of guys don’t have the perfect vision of their life as they want it to be. As the old zen saying goes, “It is hard hit with an arrow if you do not have a target.”

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Regularly engaging in hard, ultra-rewarding work that nets us long-term satisfaction and deep rich rewards of abundance and success requires you to bust your ass on a day-to-day basis. At one point or another you will stop and look down at your morning breakfast of raw milk, raw eggs, and broccoli and go, “What the fuck am I doing? What am I doing all this hard work for?” This is when most of us ‘fall of the path’ of greatness, resorting once again to in-the-moment instant gratification pleasures. You skip the healthy meal and pour a bowl of shitty cereal, rationalizing that “you’re running late anyways” or that “you’ll eat healthy tomorrow, one day wont kill you” or you’ll skip that workout, or not read that book, or wont approach that girl.

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When you have a purpose, a clear MISSION for your life, you begin to feel stoked and deeply responsible about your daily actions… even if they take tremendous work and effort and/or energy. Always keep the end in mind and the “work” takes care of itself. When you focus on how sexy and strong you are going to look, how incredible you are going to feel, how wet you are going to make those hot girls at the club and how hard and how long you are going to fuck them for – eating healthy and working out regularly becomes a breeze.

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When you focus on the goal of having total relief & freedom knowing you have a steady stream of cash coming into your bank account all day and night long (on autopilot) and that you virtually can do anything you want with your time all day and buy the cool things you want living THE “new rich” lifestyle, reading that internet marketing course and taking massive action towards your business visions becomes an afterthought.

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When you have a WHY the ‘how’ becomes irrelevant.

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Nothing on this physical plane can stop you.

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So before you begin to set goals and daily action steps (the more specific the better… i.e. wake up at 8 A.M., eat THIS, meditate for 30 minutes, do the Tibetan Rites at 9:00 A.M., 9:15 A.M. Read for 30 minutes, etc) you need to establish your Mission. Your purpose.

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Not only will this fuel your fire, it will give you a reason and a clear sense of direction for your life – something only 5% of the population has. And guess what, if you’re working for someone else (sacrificing your own personal precious time and resources) you’re fueling THEIR vision and purpose.

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Congratulations, you’re a slave.


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If you do not know your purpose, discover it NOW. (taken from David Deida)

Without a conscious life-purpose a man is totally lost, drifting, adapting to events rather than creating events. Without knowing his life-purpose a man lives a weakened, impotent existence, perhaps eventually becoming even sexually impotent or prone to mechanical and disinterested sex

The core of your life is your purpose. Everything in your life, from your diet to your career, must be aligned with your purpose if you are to act with coherence and integrity in the world. If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours.

But if you don’t know your deepest desire, then you can’t align your life to it. Everything in your life is dissociated from your core. You go to work, but since its not connected to your deepest purpose it is just a job, a way to earn money. You go through your daily round with your family and friends, but each moment is just another in a long string of moments, going nowhere, not inherently profound.

Disconnected from your core, you feel weak. This empty feeling will undermine not only your ‘erection’ in the world, but your erection with your woman, too. However, when you know your true purpose, which is your core desire in life, each moment can become a full expression of your core desire. Every instant of career, every instant of intimacy, is filled with the power of your heart purpose. You are no longer just going through the motions at work and with your woman, but you are living the truth of your life, and giving the gifts of your life, moment by moment Such a life is complete unto itself in every instant.

The superior man is not seeking for fulfillment through work and woman, because he is already full. For him, work and intimacy are opportunities to give his gifts, and be vanished in bliss of the giving. This is the Way of superior Man.

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida


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A good exercise I do each morning before getting up out of bed is ask yourself, “If you could do anything, bring anything through your hands… no matter how extraordinary or magical, exactly what would it be and WHY?” This will get you started on the right path.

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Keep your mind focused on exactly what you want, constantly, and the universe will bring it to you in ways you can’t even imagine.

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Another motivating thing you can do is fill your environment (stick a poster board above your bed) fill it with pictures of EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT. Hot girls, cool cars, beach houses, musical instruments, a trophy, pictures of inspiring buff dudes, exotic travel locations, V.I.P. Night Clubs, or whatever it is that you want to have and enjoy in your life. Every time you view this board you will be snapped back on your path and your WHY will become obvious. Your inner burning fire will be ignited and your fresh new day with highly-focused purposeful action will begin.

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Also remember guys, Jan 1st doesn’t have to the the day to start some wicked positive changes in your life. Every day you wake up is a new fresh beginning to start steering the ship of your life in the direction you want it.

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Welcome to the New Year.

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Now that you’re ready to slay 2011, it’s time for some exciting news.

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So many dudes have been asking, “What’s up with the future of Authentic King?”

“Where’s it going?”

“Where are you guys taking the site?”

“What?”

Hendrix and I have some seriously wicked awesome stuff planned for you cats.

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Welcome to Authentic King 2011.

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We’re currently very hard at work ‘behind-the-scenes’ to bring our gift to the world. We like to think of it as a modern-day Fight Club. It’s going to be an exclusive secret society type of portal – where actual secrets & real-world TRUTHS of acquiring lots of money, hot women, extraordinary life success, GODLIKE health and fitness(real bodybuilding anyone?), and all sorts of other amazing potent topics that will drastically alter the lives of Men everywhere.

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We’re going to be massively expanding out the site, the blog is going to split in two to document our individual chill life updates and funny stories / LRs / miscellaneous AWESOME SHIT from Hendrix and I’s lifestyle adventures.

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We’ll regularly be posting up in-field footage, video life blog updates, pics of recent girls we’ve fucked etc etc etc.

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Next, we’re expanding to add on The Authentic King Lounge.

 


The AK Lounge is going to be our kickass forum / user-community. A live chat, user blogs & profiles, and forum dedicated to all key important areas (Women, Money, Health & Fitness, Spirituality to name a few…) Hendrix and I will regularly be posting there helping out guys 1-on-1 and pasting up hilarious and detailed educational LRs as well as other lava hot value. Our plan is to create a ‘Master Mind’ group of like-minded positive chill regular guys who are dedicated to stepping up and truly living their dreams.

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Gentlemen, welcome to Fight Club.

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We’re also including an Inspiration section that’s going to include HOT HOT Women featured in high quality HD imagery to motivate you guys to step the fuck up in your lives and go after what you want, as well as an area where you can post up see other guy’s successes to fuel ideas for your own.

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Next up… The Authentic King Vault.

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The Authentic King Vault will hold all the secrets and all the how-to’s. This will be the place to go to get exclusive access to the CORE CONTENT of the Authentic King Principles. We’re going to take all the old blog posts, update them and revise them & cement them into expanded KEY LESSONS.

Think of it as the ultimate go-to resource encompassing virtually every crucial area that is most important to you. We’re going to be including in-depth articles about how to truly acquire that which you desire – making tons of real money [on autopilot] using the internet, EVERYTHING you need to know for having Rock Star success with women(how to truly ‘game’ and gets LOTS and LOTS of girls, how to have mind-blowing tantric lasting sex – in depth training on what makes a guy REALLY good in bed [after interviewing and fucking lots and lots of girls), how to grow a bigger dick [for real. no BS.], a comprehensive Health section including real raw truths for how to obtain a strong ripped energetic vital body and sharp mind, spirituality, discovering your mission & purpose, general life success tips, and SO MUCH MORE. This is only the tip of the iceberg guys.

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The cool thing about Authentic King 2011 is that it is what the name says – AUTHENTIC. All the information you will be getting is what truly WORKS in today’s world.

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It has ALL been field-tested 100%.

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The information exclusive to The Authentic King Vault is real-world based truths that most success models and “gurus” keep secret so that they don’t have any competition.

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Think of it like the stuff that goes on behind closed doors in secret societies, men that have figured out how the world and Universe works and keep the real secrets of success (unheard of levels of health, wealth, social etc) exclusive to members within the highest level rankings of these underground societies.

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The good news? We’re bringing it all out to share for our valued members here at Authentic King.

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All of it.

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Also included in the vault will be a value-packed video section. From topics ranging from humor (How To Get Blown Out 101), to in-depth pickup training and live in-field demonstrations, cool & exclusive movies, random videos like ‘a day in the life’ tours to inspire you guys to reach a level of total financial and social abundance, etc.

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The video section alone is going to be nothing short of kick ass.

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Think of this entire underground organization like a home base for select Men to go to in order to get back on purpose. A Secret Society, if you will.

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We want this whole site to have a Tyler Durden “fight club” underground secret membership private exclusive feel.

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Our mission is all about showing guys everywhere how to achieve a COOL lifestyle in the 21st century, Authentic King style.

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Also this year I (Mizu) plan on finally releasing the much-anticipated Authentic King Manual… if you thought the blog was good, holyyy shitttt this blog is just a SAMPLE of some of the incredible chapters that I have been diligently busting my ass on for the past year.

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The cool thing about the AK Manual is that I ONLY sat down and wrote the book when I got back fresh from in the field, (or just after I sent two adorable girls home from a wild night of fun that next morning)… all the mind-blowing material is 100% RAW, fresh, field-tested (and approved!) and will seriously change the dating lives of men everywhere – FOREVER. It’s not some mental masturbation bullshit like so much of the other convoluted pickup theories out there crafted from nerds writing eBooks to make a quick buck online or who revel in the ‘teacher ego’.

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(if I was in it for the money I would of released a watered-down eBook months ago…)

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My mission is to get to the CORE of what works for attracting Women effortlessly and easily on the long-term, for realz. Like, TRUTHS that are absolutely 100% field-tested.

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This thing is seriously going to be the Man’s Bible. I’m super excited for the release.

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No, that’s an understatement.

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Half the time I’m up working on it or thinking about some of the changes we’re going to make I can’t even sleep.

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Major chills deluxe.

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Tons of new content in the works. The above is only a fraction of the changes and hidden gems we have planned for releasing for all you guys.

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Stay tuned. You guys are going to be blown away.

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Seriously.

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0 thoughts on “2011, Your bitch.

  1. Damn! Good shit! Glad to finally see another post up, been waiting for a month to see this one. Looking forward to all the good shit you guys have in store. And I am truly thankful for this shit, you guys are helping me immensely in changing my life one step at a time.

  2. Spam is so annoying. No worries dudes, new site is going to be 100% spam proof.

    It’s Friday night. 🙂

    Carpe Diem – Seize The Day It Could Be Your Last.

  3. AWESOME. I JUST had that dumb doubting question today of “WHY am I doing all this again? I mean, this chocolate icecream bar isn’t going to be that badd…” THanks so much for this post. I can’t wait for the Muscle and Internet Marketing Post and Hendrix’s Sexual Magnetism post! Awesome guys. You guys inspire me.

    Nate~

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